Dear Judge Mental Jones,
My boyfriend is really possessive. He always takes pictures of us, then asks me to post them on my Snapchat and Insta. He always asks about each person that likes my photos on Instagram, and he’s been adding my old friends in my tagged photos. I love him, but I’m feeling overwhelmed and smothered. The other day he asked me to commit to never breaking up with him- but he didn’t ask me to marry him. I’m not sure how to handle this because I really like him, but I can’t keep living like this.
Dear Am I A Commitmentphobe Or Am I Dating a Narcissist,
What in the fuck does committing to never breaking up with him but not asking you to marry him mean? It means he’s a controlling motherfucker and you need to leave this guy before it gets worse.
This is a clear case of Narcissistic Douchebag Syndrome with a dash of abuse. Let this dumbass get a taste of his own medicine! Start drilling down on his random Instagram likes. I bet he wouldn’t stand for that shit. And after he does make a stink about it, throw his own shit back into his face and call him a hypocrite right before you leave him for good.
If you really want to be evil about it, start uploading the photos he takes of you two on Facebook – with him cropped out. Really fuck with him using your content. You’re dating a creepbag, and I actually don’t understand how you love him.
I’ll be sensitive and say that he obviously he has issues, and he’s not dealing with them. He might have grown up and learned all of these things from his parents. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree. On the other hand, you find him attractive for some reason, and that means you have some issues that you’re not dealing with yourself. You accept the love you think you deserve and honey, you obviously don’t think too much of yourself.
But I’m here to tell you that you’re worth it and that you should do some real introspective work once you’ve thrown this garbage to the curb.
If you drag your legs on this one, I’ll be immensely disappointed. Just rip the band-aid off and run.
xo Judge Mental Jones
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