What is Erotophobia?

Erotophobia, the irrational fear of sex or anything sexual, is a term coined by a number of researchers in the late 1970s and early 1980s to describe one end of a continuum of attitudes and beliefs about sexuality from Erotophobia (fear of sex or negative attitudes about sex) at one end and Erotophilia (positive feelings or attitudes about sex) at the other end.

Erotophobia is used as a general term to describe any of several fears surrounding sex or sexual topics. It is considered a specific phobia and is also related to Genophobia (fear of sex), which is also sometimes used as a synonym, and Coitophobia (fear of sexual intercourse).

The root word 'eroto' is Greek meaning 'love', 'desire', or 'sexual passion' and the word 'phobia' comes from the Greek word ‘phóbos’ meaning 'fear.'

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Symptoms of Erotophobia

  • Extreme Anxiety, Dread

  • Shortness of Breath
  • Rapid Breathing
  • Heart Palpitations
  • Excessive Sweating
  • Nausea
  • Dry Mouth
  • Confusion / Inability to Articulate Clearly
  • Lack of Focus
  • Irritability
  • Shaking
  • Feelings of Powerlessness
  • Obsession with the Subject of the Phobia
  • Fear or Feelings of Losing Control
  • Avoidance Behavior
  • Headaches

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Causes of Erotophobia

Erotophobia can result directly from trauma such as witnessing or being a sexual victim of sexually traumatic event.

Another underlying cause of this fear can be religious beliefs or culture. Those who are brought up on religious teachings are commonly taught that sex is sacred, etc., often leading to repressed sexuality.

Erotophobia is a specific (or “isolated”) phobia, centered on non-social key factors. Isolated phobias tend to have some previous trauma (often in childhood and often physically injurious) as a root cause; a fear of bees may stem from an injury in childhood, for instance.

Upbringing can also play a role, such as parental warnings about a direct threat (such as “snakes can bite and kill you”) which is especially notable in cases where a threat is more imminent. (An allergy to bees or peanut butter, for instance, would naturally reinforce a real medical concern.)

It is thought that genetics and hereditary factors may play a role in specific phobias, especially those related to a danger of injury. (A primal “fight or flight” reflex may be more easily triggered in those with a genetic predisposition, for instance.)

By contrast, social phobias (like a fear of body odor or touch) are less well understood, are driven by social anxiety and are broadly labeled as “social anxiety disorder”.

In all kinds of phobias, external experiences and / or reports can further reinforce or develop the fear, such as seeing a family member or friend who is affected. In extreme cases, indirect exposures can be as remote as overhearing a reference in conversation, seeing something in the news, on TV, or in the movies.
Erotophobia, like most phobias, stems from a subconscious overprotection mechanism, and as with many phobias can also be rooted in an unresolved emotional conflict.

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Treatments for Erotophobia

  • Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT)

  • Habit Strategies To Relax
  • Cognitive Therapy (CT)
  • In Vivo Exposure
  • Response Prevention
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Group Therapy
  • Psychotherapy
  • Energy Psychology
  • Medication
  • Meditation

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