Personal Issues

Trust Nobody, Not Even Yourself

Hey Everyone! It's me! Ellis! And if you've been reading all my blog posts from the beginning, then you probably can tell that I have lots of trust issues. And the person that I don't trust the most is the crumbum I see in the mirror every morning...... me. And you're...

I Just Don’t Like Talking On The Phone

When you type into a search engine 'fear of the phone' or 'afraid of the phone,' every website that pops up tells you that you have a telephone phobia. The definition of this phobia is the reluctance or fear of making or taking phone calls and is considered a social...

Top 5 Ways To Deal With A Homophobic Friend

A lot of people in the LGBTQ community have lost friends, colleagues, and even family to homophobia. It can be deeply entrenched in religion, self-loathing (closeted people), and culture. You can’t win em all, but here are the top 5 ways to deal with a homophobic...

Top 5 Reasons Straight People Should Go To Pride

I’ve been going to Pride for 15 years. It’s such a phenomenal and unforgettable experience. Every year, I pick up new fashion tips, friends, and terminology. Not to mention epic Insta photos! I love to dress up. I get to pick my labels or if we’re going label-less....

Ode To Anorexia

I haven't been around Massive Phobia for awhile because I've been so busy with school and volleyball, and volleyball is life, so sometimes things fall by the wayside based on my religious priorities. Squad being my religion of choice of course. I was re-reading some...